Taken for Granted

Two things determine the success of a relationship..How much each of you give and how little each of you take for granted.

Do we really expect  more and give much less…?

R we not worthy of being someone’s first choice even after all the sacrifices??

And, Despite all the hurt,the pain nd d grudge.still .if we r calm n quite.. …wat wud it really be like?

That really means tat our love is more precious nd beautiful than and is above par…rest all can be rectified with tyme ,prayers and  support..But,will it be a lesson fr the other one?? ..ya more ignorance hitherto…sensing tat it makes no difference to u.. thereby..u never know.

Wud  He/She really understand ur cravings,ur demands,ur craziness to be with Him/her..as ur first nd foremost choice..!!!

Not really.

If he wud have understood the depth n sanctity .He wud have never made u an option rather u wud ve been His choice..

We r afraid to accept the fact that we fr sure r taken for granted by the ones whom we love the most..

They knw we r there…no matter what.

they knw they wud be forgiven..no matter wat..

And they knw they wud be loved …no matter wat..!!!

The one whom u chose…has other choices as well…and we have to accept it.

This reminds me of sumthing I read few days ago…”the footwears we wear  r sold in showrooms nd the vegetables n fruits tat our body n soul needs r sold on footpaths n railings”’..!!!!

We ignore the caress of those ..who make us feel important..we take them for granted.
We do seek forgiveness to make each other comfortable..

Is seeking forgiveness justified??to wat extent?? Often, we make a mistake and then try to justify it, because we don’t want to feel guilty. And this justification, does not remove the guilt because you know the justification is superficial. It makes you guiltier. It goes on and deep inside, it keeps distorting your behaviour. Be really guilty, feel it 100%, and that pain, that guilt, that sadness itself, becomes like a meditation..and arises a passion fr the one whom u wanna rest ur shoulder upon…it relaxes ur soul..mind nd fr sure ur heart. 

Make a promise with your sweetheart.. make him/her feel special..let not his life be taken for granted by you.He /she is precious than nything else..
Say a promise,"I promise to be there for you,when you need me,I promise to hug you tight when you are lonely.I promise to keep you,not for the rest of my life but for the rest of yours because you are my everything."

You don't know what you have until its gone, so don't take anything for granted because it could be gone in a blink of an eye...