Spread your true colors...

Kisi ko apna banana hunar hi sahi

Kisi ka ban ke rehna kamaal hota hai..

Yeah..tats the Spark we need to keep lit up in our hearts,in ourselves..if we really need someone to be a part of whole of our lyfe.

Yes,we do have expectations..from every relation we form bcoz of the untangible bond..but is tat bond much more important than the person.??

We get what we deserve.At times, we also get what we want.. here lies the differences ..
We may or may not care for what we have got in our life by His choice..we may be selfish and look upon them as the ones who really don't matter to us..We take them for granted as we ourselves are surely taken by them.
BUT, whomsoever we get by our want n wishes...has to be kept with much more care,love  and affection...but along-with less expectations. Tats the maxim we need to apply in our lyfe...to stay connected lively and happily.

No wonder in the journey of our life,we meet scores of people,amongst which few become friends,few Are Good friends and the rest few d best buddies...Relations we get by default but friends and intimates we make by choice..by OUR OWN CHOICE..so as a law...it becomes our own duty then to remain and standby that beautiful choice of ours.no matter the years may roll by,the hair may grow grey,but what we chose is ours by heart...beyond time.


You can't expect everyone to have the same dedication as you:. At times we may be depressed,frustrated and sad by the  unfulfilled expectations..but once we cross d line of conditions and negative notions and just value the magnanimity of the relation ..the worth of it may give us a sparkling smile, and light up our soul.We should rather be surprised pleasantly than to b fatally disppointed .Perfectionism in any relation is the root of grudges and complaints.When you stop expecting people to be perfect, you can like them for who they are.Appreciation of just their existence in your life  would be enough for them.

Put in a little effort, couple of hours,a bouquet of smiles,a tune of glee and a touch of you in someone s life..
Such a pure and selfless relation then   grows...,flourishes ,supports and relaxes us whenever,wherever whole throughout the road of our life without awaiting the destination..

Trust in Him who trusted you,
Show your worth to the ones who value you...!!