Janamashtmi--- a plethora of celebration...!!

Janam Ashtmi

The Uniqueness of  this festival just lies in this, tat one n all can participate...in some or the other way..
Janam ashtmi...makes u feel blessed...it makes u feel the importance of you as a human...gives u a chance to connect to the eternal Nand Gopala...lifts up ur spirits...nd takes u toa world of selfless and pure love...

Ah!wat a wonderful  life it wud ve been..to stay connected with the ones whom we just love..and expect nothing but love in return...!and live happily everafter...y is it tat such things tat give us happiness in real are so short lived tat they just pass on in a blink of eye.?Janamashtmi ..is celebrated fr a day..People get up in their best moods,wear their best smiles,feel d presence of supreme,be a part of the celebrations.....njoy n merry..but just fr a day..therafter,again they all get worried about all the worries of the world...office problems,petrol hikes,deteriorating rupee value,onion prices,kids schooling..wat to do and wat not to!!!!

All happiness vanishes...and re enters d huge mass of burden...with no time left to think even of the supreme...all else becums a priority...girlfriend's mood,boyfriend's connections..each bit of thing tat worries us...is a priority..tats life...tat is the life tat we ve gifted ourselves..agree or not?

Yes,we ve becum selfish,we ve no time for the divine...though we want to njoy..we want to b happy,we want joy in our lives...but are we following the right way to attain it??we all want hikes in salaries,good cars,nice place to live,superfine dresses,delicacies...and also we want to be loved by those whom we love...we want more n more of everything despite being getting unsatisfied more n more by each one of these things...!!tats the irony of our artificial n duplicate lives.


Spending few minutes with our close friends ,soothes n relaxes our mind....really!! then y dont we make dis lil kanha our friend...nd relax ourselves each day,,he s even happy to have all our problems n worries...never will tell u about his own...lets celebrate His presence in our lives in any which way we want Him to be..as a guide,friend,parent,brother,lover....He loves us selflessly...call Him by ny name..Jesus,Allah,RAm ,or Rabba..He s gonna be with u...He ll not backbite,neither will He b ever scared to support u..He is the one who ll make u shine..wen all others just leave you alone n go to dine..!!He wont ask much from u..just to remember his presence today and rest of ur life thru...!!

Make Him urs...who is always urs...

Dont fall fr d shadows,,they only hurt..

celebrate the one..nd remove rest of the dirt...!!

He ll make u shine..like a star..

 help u win thru life which at times is not less than a war..!!

ab vo bhi nahi..aur hum bhi nahi.!

Galatiyon se juda wo bhi nahi hum bhi nahi,

dono insan hai khuda wo bhi nahi hum bhi nahi.!

Wo hume hum unhe iljam dete hai magar,

apne andar jhankte wo bhi nahi hum bhi nahi.!

Galat fehmiyon ne kar di paida dono me duriyaan,

warna fitrat ke bure wo bhi nahi hum bhi nahi.!

Chahte dono bahot hai ek dusre ko magar,

ye haqiqat hai ke maante wo bhi nahi hum bhi nahi.

Being Strong!!

Being strong is to love someone in silent, to radiate happiness when we are unhappy, to forgive someone whom you always do, to stay calm in moments of despair, to show joy when we don't feel it, to smile when you want to cry, to make someone happy when our own heart is broken, to be silent when we feel like screaming our anguish, to comfort when we need to be comforted, to have faith when sometimes we no longer believe.

But its really not so easy to be strong....we break...we get shattered not at bigger losses..bt at little things that we loose..in life..the minor things that mean so much...a small peck on cheek...a hug from beloved...a caress to get comforted...These can never be replaced..never be made an option.These are priorities ..nd always remain so...just for the one who loves much,trusts much,..and is hurt much more...!!


People say a thing and do just the opposite...that hurts...giving a chance to doubt,to think..and to...let it go..


Y does one have to keep wondering at the plight of oneself..just bcoz one has given his best?

No words r enough to console..no,no nothing can help except the only one...who's never to come..!!

Sweetness is as sweet as u...!

For all the sweet moments u give me...I dedicate my sincere feelings for you.


I am with you in all the times...good and bad...tough and easy...
wont ever let u feel lonely...I ' ll care fr u .I love u my baby..!

I know ur strengths n want to enhance them..I know mine too...and want to be with you..

M urs..as much as u r mine...lets grow up together,,n make ourselves shine..!

lets sing..with our hearts..lets breathe in the same rhythm..
lets smile n laugh,,nd bring sweetness in life's venom...

yes my love..i want to be with you..to start afresh...
tats all i ve decided...to revive  myself n begin anew..!

I ll follow wat u say..may be tat is only gud fr me n gud fr u too.
Nd ask god to strengthen me..to help myself and love u thru...!

love u sweetheart..though life is nt so bad..bt it is also nt gud without you..!!
I Love you..


When I say I love you, I am proud of you just the way you are.
 When I say I love you my only desire is to grow old with you and love you till the end of time. 
When I say I love you I can feel you etched all over my heart and soul just like a tattoo. When I say I love you I mean that the soul in me honors the soul in you…!!


No matter what..I ll always be there fr you.

Silence....speaks a thousands words..it is the loudest scream and the deepest voice of the heart...that aches, has words no more.. and loves from the deepest core.Silence can often be more disturbing than noise, it reveals the complicated mechanism of our thoughts

He who does not understand your silence will probably not understand your words.

When words becum unclear and are lost in the web of misunderstandings ..silence is the only outcome.We need to be silent to understand the circumstances..and also to listen to our inner self.

But why cant we accept the silence of others..of the ones whom we want to express their feelings,their reality,their truth..We just cant accept the silence of the ones who spoke once whole heartily with us..shared every thing good and bad,happiness and sadness..!

No,we just cant.bcoz listening to them becums integral part of our life.Their talks are just not mere talks but a support system of your life. YOu like to share yourself more by listening to them.You like to be with them,understand their situations and try to give your best to them..But how is it all possible with just the silence...of you and silence of him..??Sometimes there aren't words. The silence between  is flung wide as an ocean.and we wish to  manage to reach across it, by wrapping aour arms around the other one.

Situations may worsen...Weathers may change,but how can those two humans change with just the rising or lowering of temperature?Can the stress not be relieved by sharing anymore?Why does the intensity of love,the intensity of words not prominent anymore...Why does love making  jst become a mere daily work which just needs to be finished off..ya most often even forgotten??Y is it tat we need to wait for the other one to restart  ,to begin ?Love needs no proof but it needs expression through actions,if not by words..it can be depicted even with silence...if its true !!a small text ,a minute call,an early homecoming,or a favourite dish self cooked..every bit ..can make a difference...!

If silence only could set things ryte,words would not have dictionary for their meanings.

Being Quiet together  is peace. Tranquility. Quiet is turning down the volume knob on life. Silence is pushing the off button. Shutting it down. All of it.

“Skies are crying,
I am watching,
Catching teardrops in my hands.
Only silence, as it's ending,
Like we never had a chance.
Do you have to make me feel
Like there's nothing left of me?” 

When the going gets tough..the tough gets going...!!!

When the most loving person hurts,

Its better to stay quiet,

Because if love wasn't Enough..

Do u think your words will matter...??

Its true tat we trust ,have faith in our beloved..as much as we trust our God.At times it even exceeds..coz 
Their being with us,not cheating us in any way and relying upon us...makes us love them more..
The truth and trust become the essence of a strong and healthy relation wherein we can share ourselves.

Being with them and caring about them is the utmost priority of our life,forgiving their mistakes sensibly ,is the second.Doubting them in any case,is a sin.Distance from them seems to be a punishment.But does it really matters wen we r hurt and they don't have a clue!!!We share every bit of our life with them each lil aspect is shared...no secrets,no lies and wat if ur own life becomes a game of dice...you never know wat is hidden and what is revealed...?You love someone so much,much more than u ur own self you give ur best to them ,u try never to hurt them...wat then wen u r deliberately hurt by the same person...???

We cant say a word to them bcoz we might be misunderstood.We cant shed a tear bcoz that might be  a disrespect towards our love.we cant even smile... bcoz we are hurt..

What then shud be our reaction towards something /someone that has hurt us deep inside and made us silent at the same time.without complaining,without demanding without even crying,how can we let them know that we are deeply hurt by their ignorance,ignorance of not recognizing that we want them to be loyal..that above anything else,we want their honesty towards our relation.nothing else really matters..no person or circumstance...nothing.

No matter what ,Our love for them stays stable and unconditional....forever..besides being hurt,besides being ignored and besides being JUST AN OPTION!!!!they have other people to comfort them..but not you..they have many options better than u..:(


Well, still d staunch n rigid lovers  Believe that ,Love hurts  and Love only can Heal..

No matter what the future holds  love as soulfully as you can, as beautifully as you can, and for as long as you can. Pour your heart out and share everything  each day. Spending quality time with each other and travelling to the depths of each others souls.tats all tat LOve needs. Life changes in a blink and you may not be together forever but the breathless moments spent together will remain in your heart forever…!

Be courageous to love even if you are hurt,
Let ur heart be Divine and embrace the pain..widout a word.!!

Love nd keep it up!!

...Kash chahne wale hamesha chahne wale rehte

par aksar log badal jate hain muhabbat ko paaney k baad...!!

Its true that we value a person/thing as long as we dont have it...but y cant we make it more valuable with our love after we posess it??Why do we become careless after relishing the sweetness of the relation we r into??
God has been looking n caring fr every breath of ours since we r born till date,then why do we humans make such relations which tend to loose the value with each passing day??

People need support,they need a hand to hold them wen they r alone...they need the ones who can give them a shoulder to cry on...to love them trust them be with them..but ,.do they need them forever???Certainly Not.
They need them only as per their terms and conditions..Till the time they need to comfort their own minds,make themselves at ease..!!They dont speak..wen the other one wants to listen,but only reply wen the other one asks..They dont know that they r being loved by a human..just like them and not by an object...which can be used and disposed of.!!!Why cant we understand that if few things r unsaid,that doesn't mean that they r not meant to be..few words r said unsaid..just bcoz they dont want to get misunderstood.

Waqt key saath log badaltey nahi...

Sirf benakaab hotey hain…!!

Do We trust and love someone just to pass the bad phase of our life???why do we forget that anyone and everyone may have a bad time in life..wen he/she requires to be connected with the one who means a world to him/her.If one can realize the value of support,of togetherness...y cant the other one too.???.Y is just one a mere option fr another...??even if the other one is an option...they shud be considered ,valued atleast in times of need..Priorities do exist and should exist.

The other way round,there r few crazy people who dont even let themselves free even if they r hurt and dejected..they want to give more of love .more of quality time,more of respect and be with whom they can share themselves.they want to remain in the cage/bondage f love fr a lifetime...may be it is  all they value..its all they have...as their own...they r so much committed and so much in the realm of their love that it is the only source f life for them..the one n only reason f their existence.

 Andaz-E-Muhabbat Dekha  Hai unka... Andaz-E-Wafa Nahi...

Pinjre Khol Bhi Do Toh Kuch Panchi Jaya Nahi Karte!!!

All said, we need to value the closeness,and tenderness of a relation which stands the tests of time.. !
Be in it and love to be with it..It can be magical !!!

A B'DAY WISH..!OF A LOVER..FRM A LOVER..!!!

My Birthday Wish...frm my Love..

I don’t want any promises or commitments because I will be shattered if someday you cannot live up to them. I love you without any regret because I have given you my all without expecting anything in return. I just adore the divine and beautiful bond of love that we share. I have immense faith in the strength of our sacred love because I consider it as a blessing from God. We were paired up in heaven and we were destined to meet. I just want you and me to be together till the end of time. I just want to love you to the core with all my heart and soul. I am not at all proud of myself for loving you so unconditionally because this is the only way I have known love in its true sense. I just want to cherish your pure and soulful love. I pray that our love remains eternal and everlasting.




GOD BLESS US!!

Let the reason be Love...!!

 As it has been said:

Love and a cough

cannot be concealed.
Even a small cough.
Even a small love...

I love you without knowing how, or when, or from where. I love you simply, without problems or pride: I love you in this way because I do not know any other way of loving but this, in which there is no I or you, so intimate that your hand upon my chest is my hand, so intimate that when I fall asleep your eyes close. 

What greater thing is there for two human souls, than to feel that they are joined for life—to strengthen each other in all labour, to rest on each other in all sorrow, to minister to each other in all pain, to be one with each other in silent unspeakable memories at the moment of the last parting?

I carry you with me into the world, into the smell of rain & the words that dance between people & for me, it will always be this way, walking in the light, remembering being alive together.

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Celebrate Love...!!

Everything on this planet revolves around love. Each living being that grows and sustains itself, 

loves something or the other. Some species love food, some love the air, depending on what they need and 

brings them comfort and satisfaction.  In humans however, love is complicated than any other species. 

There are several reasons to it. Firstly, unlike other species that communicate non verbally, for humans 

love spells a thousand different things. Human life is more complicated than any other species therefore,

 love happening and understanding takes a longer period of time.

So have you ever asked yourself, “I am falling in love, what is happening to me really?” 

Surely you have at some point or another, when the special someone showed up and your heart nearly 

missed a lot of beats and you thought you were going insane. When love happens there are a thousand things 

that are going on inside your body and mind.

When you are in love, you will always wish that the person you are in love with remains with you for all time.

 Love does not always mean sex.., some people can go on being in love for a long time, without really
 indulging in sex. When love happens sex will happen automatically, though after how long,
 depends on the couple rather than on the person himself.

However, there are no clear signals for love, some people have made mistakes by interpreting lust as love,

 but lust will soon die out, after the physical attraction is over and each people will be looking different ways. 

However, love rarely dies out, the couple may or may not be together any more, but once you have 
really loved aperson, you can be assured that you will never stop loving the person though you may
 be miles apart.

Love does not necessarily mean meeting everyday either.  Instead, love means having and maintaining
 affection for someone special, from whom you would even relish a glance. 

There are also people in this world who tend to shy away from their feelings; this is because they are more
 afraid of the pains of heartbreak and rejection rather than the love itself. It is true heartbreak that comes after
 a break up in a relationship can be quite painful, for some people it ends up making an a mark that cannot be 
completely removed from their lives.

Love has its own virtues; a person in love changes inside out, he becomes more humane, and sometimes
 people find solace in being with their loved ones, this is entirely true especially for those who are very deeply 
in love.

When you are in love, you will miraculously be ready accepting the next person better than you would
 otherwise,
 this tends to widen your scope of understanding and affection.

Love in human beings is all the more surprising, because couples have their own set of problems,
 but once in love, each one is ready to sacrifice and compromise so that they can stay together.
 Humans can go to any limits once they are in love, for humans love is the ever found happiness and
 the reason to do any type of supreme sacrifice for each other.

Love really is God’s gift to mankind,..Be strong enough to be in Love ...Celebrate Love..!!

Love Beyond Words

Love Beyond Words..

The age old question, what is Love?

Isnt it the greatest gift from the holy one Above?

Is it pure and white like a new born Dove?

Does it cuddle you up, Like a hand in a Glove?

What is LOVE?

The force that propels you, through pain and despair

the benevolence, the blessings from the heavens above

the ray of sunshine that pierces the clouds,

a perennial hope, that's what is love

Its the drug that heals, and cures all the pain

Its an eternal promise, never meant to be broken

Its the bond that adheres two hearts together

People may die and their stories may end

But their love is immortal, it lives on forever

Its the river that cuts through boulders and rocks

and the stream that flows through our barren lives

And on its long course, it leaves behind a trail

Of vivid fragrant flowers, and clear blue skies

Love is felt by the heart, relished by the soul,

Blissful like the divine touch of the Gods,

I yearn for more ballads and more metaphors,

But i fall short of verses, can't bind love in words...

MAN.TRAS,,

Mantras..invoke inner strength...

If you ever happen to observe a quiet and slight movement of a Buddhist lips,rest assured he is reciting the mantra "Om Mani Padme Hun"
These four powerful words are used to invoke and hail the precious Lotus(Buddha).And their magic on the reciter s mind is instant and soothing.
Buddhism lays great importance on the need to recite mantras ,anytime and as much as possible.In sanskrit,"man"means 'mind" and "tra"means "freeing".
So,mantras are a sure means to free your mind of all redundant and evil thoughts ,so that you have a clear mind that you can convert into a depository of kindness,compassion,good thoughts and positive feelings.All this will keep you on the right track to make life more purposeful.


Robin S. Sharma,author of The Monk who sold his Ferrari,calls mantras your 'best companion."It keeps you busy and your mind free of evil thoughts.
if,ever you are in a situation where you are scared for your dear life,mantras give you enough strength to cast aside any kind of fear perception.
Mantras have the power to keep you confident and cheerful..When you feel down n out ,recite the mantras of your choice.
Your mind invokes your inner strength  to overpower all kinds of depressive thoughts and lets you come out as a winner.Once that happens you are in a position to think of the more beautiful aspects of life and you soon find happiness.
Gurus tell us that the only limit you have is the limit you impose on yourself.You are what you think.You become what you think you can.
That clearly shows the power of words.And mantras are nothing but a combination of words that you can coin on your own to suit your individual needs

.
Repeat your favourite mantra a hundred times wenevr you feel the enemy within you is threatening you.Its your mind that is reflected on your face,and your mind is influeneced by words.In times of crisis,if you can assure and reassure yourself that you can overcome a problem,then you can.
As they say,faith moves mountains.Your mind too has the capacity to deal with any kind of possibility.But these capabilities have to be invoked,nurtured and made use of.The problem with most of us is that we underestimate our own capabilities.Haven't the sages told us that to create a beautiful 'outside' you have to first create a beautiful'inside'? and that is perfectly within your reach and capacity.Words and Will help you acheive that...!!!

Sufi Music

Sufi music,that has taken the art scene by storm in the last few years,has remained steadfast since the 10th century.Transcending all religions its a link bridging God and the devotees.that takes you far away from materialism.The music is synonymous with serenity,mental peace and divine power,which is a symbol of truth.The word originates from an arabic word,Sufi,which means pure.The music began with the Chistia order in Khorasan and spread its tranquil musical high all over the world.It is attracting the new generation at the international level breaking barriers as an example of unity in diversity.

'Qawwali'recitation is a traditional part of sufi music that expresses an ecstatic feeling of love.This form of music recital is based on ragas and has classical patterns...with a soothing effect of love for God.Hazrat Aamir khusrau,Baba bulle Shah and Kabir are major exponents...what they penned is still able to liven up peoples sinking hearts..The reciation of qawaali  is in praise of God or a saint is a distinctive como of harmonium,tabla and dholak..and is sung  primarily in Awadhi,Brij Persian and Punjabi...The repetitive clapping in sync is spell binding and throws the audience into a trance...In particular the compositions of Aamir Khusrau are great favourites with the musical public because they are written in sweet,simple yet highly p[oetical languageand speak of his love of God and guru (Hazrat Nizamuddin Aulia)with great intensity and pasion..These songs are the gift of the soil of Delhi to the world.They are both deeply personal and completely universal in spirit,exactly like God-love..Perhaps thats why they are so popular in today 's crazy world of stress.

Taken for Granted

Two things determine the success of a relationship..How much each of you give and how little each of you take for granted.

Do we really expect  more and give much less…?

R we not worthy of being someone’s first choice even after all the sacrifices??

And, Despite all the hurt,the pain nd d grudge.still .if we r calm n quite.. …wat wud it really be like?

That really means tat our love is more precious nd beautiful than and is above par…rest all can be rectified with tyme ,prayers and  support..But,will it be a lesson fr the other one?? ..ya more ignorance hitherto…sensing tat it makes no difference to u.. thereby..u never know.

Wud  He/She really understand ur cravings,ur demands,ur craziness to be with Him/her..as ur first nd foremost choice..!!!

Not really.

If he wud have understood the depth n sanctity .He wud have never made u an option rather u wud ve been His choice..

We r afraid to accept the fact that we fr sure r taken for granted by the ones whom we love the most..

They knw we r there…no matter what.

they knw they wud be forgiven..no matter wat..

And they knw they wud be loved …no matter wat..!!!

The one whom u chose…has other choices as well…and we have to accept it.

This reminds me of sumthing I read few days ago…”the footwears we wear  r sold in showrooms nd the vegetables n fruits tat our body n soul needs r sold on footpaths n railings”’..!!!!

We ignore the caress of those ..who make us feel important..we take them for granted.
We do seek forgiveness to make each other comfortable..

Is seeking forgiveness justified??to wat extent?? Often, we make a mistake and then try to justify it, because we don’t want to feel guilty. And this justification, does not remove the guilt because you know the justification is superficial. It makes you guiltier. It goes on and deep inside, it keeps distorting your behaviour. Be really guilty, feel it 100%, and that pain, that guilt, that sadness itself, becomes like a meditation..and arises a passion fr the one whom u wanna rest ur shoulder upon…it relaxes ur soul..mind nd fr sure ur heart. 

Make a promise with your sweetheart.. make him/her feel special..let not his life be taken for granted by you.He /she is precious than nything else..
Say a promise,"I promise to be there for you,when you need me,I promise to hug you tight when you are lonely.I promise to keep you,not for the rest of my life but for the rest of yours because you are my everything."

You don't know what you have until its gone, so don't take anything for granted because it could be gone in a blink of an eye...