Spread your true colors...

Kisi ko apna banana hunar hi sahi

Kisi ka ban ke rehna kamaal hota hai..

Yeah..tats the Spark we need to keep lit up in our hearts,in ourselves..if we really need someone to be a part of whole of our lyfe.

Yes,we do have expectations..from every relation we form bcoz of the untangible bond..but is tat bond much more important than the person.??

We get what we deserve.At times, we also get what we want.. here lies the differences ..
We may or may not care for what we have got in our life by His choice..we may be selfish and look upon them as the ones who really don't matter to us..We take them for granted as we ourselves are surely taken by them.
BUT, whomsoever we get by our want n wishes...has to be kept with much more care,love  and affection...but along-with less expectations. Tats the maxim we need to apply in our lyfe...to stay connected lively and happily.

No wonder in the journey of our life,we meet scores of people,amongst which few become friends,few Are Good friends and the rest few d best buddies...Relations we get by default but friends and intimates we make by choice..by OUR OWN CHOICE..so as a law...it becomes our own duty then to remain and standby that beautiful choice of ours.no matter the years may roll by,the hair may grow grey,but what we chose is ours by heart...beyond time.


You can't expect everyone to have the same dedication as you:. At times we may be depressed,frustrated and sad by the  unfulfilled expectations..but once we cross d line of conditions and negative notions and just value the magnanimity of the relation ..the worth of it may give us a sparkling smile, and light up our soul.We should rather be surprised pleasantly than to b fatally disppointed .Perfectionism in any relation is the root of grudges and complaints.When you stop expecting people to be perfect, you can like them for who they are.Appreciation of just their existence in your life  would be enough for them.

Put in a little effort, couple of hours,a bouquet of smiles,a tune of glee and a touch of you in someone s life..
Such a pure and selfless relation then   grows...,flourishes ,supports and relaxes us whenever,wherever whole throughout the road of our life without awaiting the destination..

Trust in Him who trusted you,
Show your worth to the ones who value you...!!

Delight in Devotion

At first sight ..dis one word "Devotion" seems to be related to spirituality..dedication towards God.. and esp.by the ones at TOP levels..the Preachers and the Mahatmas..the Gurus and the Pandits...all re devoted..

But we ..at MIDDLE  level seem to be less devoted..."seem to" bcoz we have limitations of time..we have n no. of other work n doubts in mind, at home and at workplace..we are all occupied to the max..

We devote ourselves to GOD..in times of need ..when we loose our words..We pray silently..and expect Him to understand with equal mind-power...as our devotion is..We repeatedly forget that whatever we offer to Him was given to us by Him; so all we can in principle give Him is our freewill, our consciousness!
Y  and how do we pray? ....they say,Prayer is not an attempt to change God's Minds; but it is a process to let Him change ours!but do we really change our mindset...do we want to??

On a second thought..methinks..y cant we devote ourselves to everything  that we really  do..
Be it the task  of a homemaker, or a teacher..
Be it in any profession or business..
and utmost y not we devote ourselves in Love too..

M sure Devotion develops mutual Trust...tats d way we become trustworthy...Tats the way we improve ourselves ..feel at peace and be happy from within...Contentment is all that we get.

We rely on our Top officials..i.e. our preachers n Pundits..to elevate us..spiritually..we do trust them.
abide by all the terms and conditions they dictate us...and thus feel content fr a while..

In materialistic world too,we do the same..at workplace we rely on our CEO's,Directors aka the Top Management .which in turn agrees to standby d Mid level and the upper mid level employees..who work hard to make themselves trustworthy...And at home again..kids rely on grandparents and parents..for the same..

To develop this kind of mutual trust and respect..for each other..we need to devote ourselves..
We really  need to express ourselves..but With Honesty and without malice..

Now ,To  communicate with relations we have  a vast range of developed a communication system..mobiles ,mails,messages but to communicate with God..we need silence...!He takes our silent prayers as Devotion.!!!tats enough fr  d Mid level people who  are occupied in their hard work.

Any good  relation needs devotion from every side and from every angle..for its development..

To God -We pray:
To Elders-We respect..
To Top level-We dedicate our work..
To Lower Level-We Help
 To Love- We have to love..


Lets dedicate our true self to be a Devotee ,Lets  be Fair, Pure, Pious and Worthy ..and thus find
Delight in  Devotion!!!