Eternal is HIs Love..

Faith...trust...Belief...confidence,conviction..reliance...these are d words all related to hope,acceptance n certainty...
..Being a Human..we all need to rely on someone right frm birth till d last breath...
no matter how hard we may be frm inside...a child wen born cries..n relies onn his mother..wen he grows up ..he depends on his father for his demands..a lil more growth shows his trust towards his friends,,being d most..(though friends keep changing)..then he/she has his/her family..a girl trusts her husband and vice versa...

we all have hopes,expectations,.all hidden in our hearts..frm d ones whom we confide..but wat happens..once we realize tat ...all those on whom we r so much dependent...whom we trust ..n in whom we confide..is just an illusion...!wat if they vanish all f a sudden..wat if we loose them....in a wink of an eye??
we seem to b more lost...we may panic at times...we cry fr wat we thot ws ours and wud always remain wid us...our hopes,our dreams,our plans..all get shattered...

then we remember Him....to complain..to fight..to have our answers..to help n strengthen us..
y do we remember Him so late.?Is He just a service provider...??or a HOD of manpower?
a recruitment Head??who is He??

He fr sure shud be the one on whom we should confide..depend n rely..love Him ,trust Him ..He is d cause f all causes..:He is d one n only one who will never vanish..who will fulfill all tat we want..without demanding..who can shower lots f love upon u..no matter by watever name n relation u confide on HIm...Be wid Him n feel d magic..f remaining blessed eternally...He wont leave u ever...!!anyone f any age..can depend on Him..fr all d wishes n demands fr all d tears n smiles...He is always there to share..!!

God Bless!!

Need AndWants,,

...We allow our Morals and Values to succumb to the greed of Possessions. We limit our Intelligence with the absence of appropriate Knowledge & substitute the same with worthless Speculation! Why?
The Modern We are so engaged in our daily errands that we hardly have enough time on our hand to focus on anything for a steady duration. We are constantly fire fighting situations at work, besieged in time management, concerned about our reputation rather than character & striving to strike a balance between our family & social life. So much so, that we barely devote enough quality time to thank the All Mighty! Why?

But yet we manage a lot of time to incessantly bribe the Lord to improve our existence! How?

Have you ever taken a child shopping? The child repeatedly asks for one thing & then the other & then another. Even if you negotiate for just one thing it will show keenness to buy another as soon as you have bought him one. That's the way a child is; always looking for more, desiring for extra. Now – imagine yourself in that child's place repeatedly asking for things from God. How irritating it would be for him that we constantly keep our hands spread out; asking for more & more.

God's response would be, "I have given you everything you need; your want is your concern!"

Today, we are so ritualistic in our approach that we forget the Spiritualistic aspect! Our orientation towards rituals is so extreme that we get disintegrated spiritually! We concentrate so much on the process that the spirit in itself starts to get feeble & our spirituality ends the moment the said ritual is over!

Small changes

somewhere in your life - right now - there is a small, positive change that you can implement in your lifestyle.
When you make this small change, and it remains, the results can profoundly influence your world.
Perhaps this will change from that destructive habit that you decided to abandon forever.
Or maybe it's that positive attitude you decided to add into your daily routine.
It can be something as simple as deciding to start a new day with a smile instead of complaints.
Small changes can have a broad and positive impact on your life because the benefits of this small change are repeated day after day.
Continue adding more and more small changes and you will see a not too distant future, genuine and amazing changes.
Give - today - yourself, the gift of a small change in your life and continue to enjoy the best the future can offer you.

Pleasure in Guilt....

...We seek pleasure.. all of us..some way or the other...in material and non material things..we grow in an environment full of ideologies but at times we want to run away..run away..be wild..be free frm any bondage..we can n we certainly do..we have ways to find satisfaction...seek pleasure stealthily ..yes we shud admit tat we have hidden pleasures....we enjoy but cant show,tell..we dont want to...these r hidden pleasures or we may say..pleasures in guilt..we knw we r wrong..bt a sense of satisfaction,enjoyment gives us a boost f prolonging such a pleasure within us....
wat makes it different...frm other things tat satisfy us....
may be bcoz ...
*the pleasure is just ours...
*we solely possess the hapiness we get out of it.... .
*we need not share it wid anyone

*we r mesmerised in the happiness it gives us..


A real guilty pleasure is something that inspires shame. Something that reveals an actual character flaw.Every character has a devil and a God inside ...in guilt fr sure we serve d devil..we make him happy..(atleast e try to do so)..

Must say..Perhaps all pleasure is only relief..A COLD SIGH...though momentary... move on..n live on with all the fortunes but remember not to hurt others to satisfy ur desires...tat guilt wud give u PAIN NOT PLEASURE...search fr pleasures in guilts never be guilty f ur pleasures...!!!

We Need to learn...

Its true...No matter who we r....Learning is a never ending processs..we need to learn at every stage f life...books guide us in our school/college life...but r they enough?

I ve learned so much frm kids...whom we teach academics n socializing..they can b our most lineant teachers ...I gt the biggest inspiration of my life frm a small kid ...!!

we can learn frm nything/nybody we want to...WITH a DESIRE and WITHOUT criticizing....

we r humans....not perfectionists...we do make mistakes....at times our mistakes may also teach us good lessons..its upto us to observe a thing/person/situation as our guide...

we need to listen to our teachers...not just speak..


Courage is what it takes to stand up and speak;
courage is also what it takes to sit down and listen.....

listen n learn....all gud things f life...

God Bless!!

awaken the child in urself...!!!

Instant growth?Instant satisfaction? what do we need...

..we as children were taught...to draw ...draw fewlines..join them to make some piece of art....
colour it n then get it checked by our Drawing teacher...Ms.Rajni(i do well remember all my teacher's names)..getting a "Good" made us feel proud of our invention...of a piece of art....

But now how often do we have time to make sumthing..if our kid gets sumthing to be done by us as his/her homework....we raise our eyebrows...quickly search the internet or go to the market for a guide or ask his/her senior how it is to be done....no time for anything....no time to use our brains....ya we simply start cursing the school teachers for wat a waste of time they have given for the children....this is wat we r cultivating....every now n then..i think of the kids who r under pressure of loads of books...under pressure of acheving good marks...under pressure to grow up...but are we pressurizing them to be innovative?...be confident...?

i wish we had time to see them grow up gradually...slowly..!
they r nature's gift..we have merely made them machines..as we too have becum!!

Capture Love...in ur Life..!!

...Its been several days...many months rather..wanted to invest my time in ..me....!!

to think,to dive n recreate d inner me...heard many good n few bad things...abt myself...gud ones by those who have been my friends since long,n even d latest friends..and bad ones by those who are my Near ones,my relatives....!!

so what shud we conclude...do we have different characters...do we live different lives?or do we have different ways to deal with people..the NEAR and DEAR Ones...?

Shuld we waste our time judging those who mark us(good/Bad) or shud we spend our time with and for theone who MADE us?

i believe He made me good n Beautiful.....i trust HIM..not the people!!

if i m bad..i ll be punished...but is it our duty to judge others,blame others,and change others..when we cant change our own self?????

y can"t we be Plain...n simple ,straight..in all that we do n say...y d diplomacy..yeah!m bad coz m not a Diplomat!!i cant be..tats d way I am...

May God Bless me and all to be as pure as the Love of Srimati Radharani...

Love n be loved...God Bless!!